Interview with a 40 year old Cougar: (Why younger guys should date older women)
For the full unedited transcript of this interview,
go to the “Interview with a Cougar, Part 2” page
I recently interviewed a female that most guys in their
20′s refer to as a “Cougar”. In case you aren’t
familiar, a “Cougar” is a female that is in her 40′s and
generally looks very good for her age and typically dates
men in their 20′s.
During the interview, I tried to figure out why a female
in her 40′s would be attracted towards a younger man.
It seemed as if the topic of “sex” was a recurring theme.
Duh !!
Here are 5 reasons (according to a self-admitted Cougar)
as to why men in their 20′s should date a female in her 40′s:
1. 40-50 year old men just can’t f#@% us good enough
Face it. Most guys in their 40′s and 50′s just can’t lay pipe
like they used to. These things happen. Some guys try to
make up for it by popping a few Viagra pills….ok, you got
the car started….but how long can the little engine
that could, keep it up? As some guys get older, their
stamina gets weaker. Pretty soon…..what once used to be
the Mighty Casey Jones, barreling down the train tracks, 8 track
player blasting in the wind, is now nothing more than a miniature
train ride at a local country fair. Atchison, Topeka and the
Santa Fe, you are not.
2. That “one thing” that your 20 year old girlfriend does…
…is nothing compared to what 30 some-odd years of experience
in the bed can do for you. That “one thing” that your 20-something
girlfriend performs so well in bed is nothing more than a cheap card
trick to a 40 year old female. Child’s play….not even worthy of
being featured on “stupid human tricks” on David Letterman.
3. Sugar mommy, anyone?
Allow me to propose two scenarios:
1. It’s Friday night and your 20 year old girlfriend wants to be
taken out on a night out on the town. Dinner….dancing…drinks
maybe even a late night stop at a local bar and grill for a snack.
Guess who is going to foot the bill? You and your $12 an hour
college job.
2. It’s Friday night and the hot 40 year old woman that you have
been dating/talking to wants to go out. She picks you up in her
car, then proceeds to take you out for dinner and dancing and
whatever else. Guess who is going to foot the bill?
Guess who will also slip a $100 bill in your pocket so that you can
buy lunch/etc while you are attending college courses next week?
Women in their 20′s: Causing men to go flat ass broke for centuries.
I rest my financial case.
4. No Strings Attached !!
Generally speaking, a cougar isn’t going to be calling you
10 times a day….asking you “how your day is coming along”.
They aren’t going to send you text message after text message
bothering you on an almost hourly basis. 40 year old women
aren’t going to follow you out when you go drinking with your
buddies and they won’t get pissed if you are seen talking to
a random female at the bar.
All a 40 year old female asks is that you be at her house and
in her bed when you say you will be.
Is that too much to ask?
5. You’ll be the envy of your friends.
Most guys nowadays talk about wanting to hook up with
that hot “MILF”. In fact, if you really want to score some
points with your buddies, find another guy in your circle
of immediate friends who you don’t particularly care for.
Make sure his mom is single (I don’t condone cheating btw)
and hook up with her. Nothing says “Screw you, dude” better
than you and his Mom walking down to the kitchen together
at 7am while he is sitting at the breakfast table eating a box
of Captain Crunch. Talk about a “Kodak Moment”…..
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September 22nd, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Why must you assume that all girls in their 20s expect a guy to foot the bill for every outing? Some of us young gals work hard as well, and take pride in that. Enough with your “empowerment” nonsense…Dating a younger guy doesn’t automatically mean you’re empowered OR strong…An empowered woman doesn’t have to prove that she can woo younger men OR older men. And by the way…there’s a saying among us young folk…”just put a bag over their face.” So don’t flatter yourself so much.
November 16th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Awsome….Why do the guy wants to pay for everything? Women should take pride and pay for themselves or atleast offer a part of the bill….That is a good way on the girls side to attract the guy.
Luis
April 17th, 2010 at 2:40 pm
if a 40-50 female has experience, then a 40-50 male has even more. its not true that younger men make sex better than older men. actually younger men suffer from premature ejaculation, lack experience and just release their sperm in women. older men know how to make love! that’s why younger women love them! the truth is that older women fancy boys because they are free to do what they can’t with their age mates. more over most younger men get fed up with cougars in the next 3 months of the affair.
April 17th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
He(?) makes a very good point…
Also, the little “boy toys” have the potential to run through the cougars bank account very quickly.
June 6th, 2010 at 9:51 am
ehehehehe………im a hot 47 yr old woman….and, i like dating guys within reason……5-10 yrs….and, well it is just a preference of what i like…..
im not blind enough to know the difference between sugar moma and real relationships…..
i keep it real…..and, well….there are plenty of hot 20 yr old women that have their act together….so…i say….do what makes u feel better……im lucky to have good jeans….er genes!!!!!!
June 29th, 2010 at 11:46 am
I’m with Camille. I’m a hot 52 year-old who is dating an active marine who is about to be 30. He pursued me for three months, not the other way around. He tells me constantly that my body is as good as any twenty year old he’s ever dated, and I am much easier on his billfold. He has no problem showing me off to his buds. It may not be the best relationship for everyone, but it works for us. He tells me all the time “If you’ve got it, flaunt it.” Sorry young ladies, but I’m at the prime of my life and I have no apologies.
October 28th, 2010 at 2:12 pm
Why do you assume a 40+ yr old woman is just looking for a good screw? Thank you for reducing us to nothing but a blowup doll! Just because we reach a certain age does not mean we are no longer women and no longer want to be respected and treated as such. Perhaps women are open to younger men simply because men their age are too busy chasing after young girls and simply don’t want us!
November 29th, 2010 at 1:13 am
I love hot wet cougars who are ready to get it on! Grrrrrr!
December 9th, 2010 at 7:52 pm
I’m 20 days away from 40. Twenty-somethings think I’m their age, just oddly intelligent. No, I don’t date them, but I sometimes prefer men in their early 30s. I have tattoos, piercings, dress in Levi’s, Chuck Taylors, T-shirts no one else has. I’ve always been on the wild and obscure side in my tastes. You try to find a man 40 to 47 who is anything like me. Oh, and by the way, I always pay for my own tab.
February 6th, 2011 at 3:36 pm
to luo: what are you talking about? i am a 43 old awesome and gorgeous woman. its not that 40-50 yr old women have more experience than older men, its all about stamina! younger men don’t have bad backs, don’t talk about their past baggage, they have more hair. out of the men in their 20′s that i have dated, only 1 of them really were financially strapped but out of the men over 32 years old, several of them were always in financial doom. i can accept someone in their 20′s not having enough money, but men/women older than 30 not having enough money….get real. it’s also not true that younger men get fed up with “cougars” as you put it after 3 months. all of my younger friends have remained my loyal friends and often my consistent sexual partners for the last 5 years when neither of us are in a relationship. And my relationships have all been with younger men. Recently I gave a 42 yr old men a chance with me and it was a nightmare. The complaining, night after night just watching movies, periodic money problems. He started seeing someone younger and now he’s in worse financial straights so younger women can also have a motive. Older men date younger women because they are easier to manipulate and it makes the older man feel better about himself because the younger woman never realizes he ain’t as great as he seems. Especially guys in their 40′s who are desperately trying to hold on to their youth which i find quite comical. Younger men know how to make love and how to screw! They don’t wet their pants everytime they see a 21 year old girl walk by because unlike the older man, they can get 10 of those a day. By the way, the 42 year old i was seeing, i started seeing his 21 year old son and he is way better than old dad ever thought about being. We are still seeing each other and it has been 1 year and 1/2. who knows?
March 24th, 2011 at 10:15 pm
Hot 24-year old girl got dumped by a Cougar. Book it.
June 10th, 2011 at 2:51 pm
If your 40 date a 40 year old .I think it is gross for a old lady to date a young guy and how can the young boys have sex with a women that ould be there gradma .sick! cougars just get used and abused do u really think the guy loves you lol..haha please I am 24 years old and believe me they tell me it is only 4 the money and 4 them to say they fucked a 40 year old women ..how can cougars think a guy would perfer a 40 year old then some one young and beautiful there age grow up bitches-
July 4th, 2011 at 4:23 pm
Women in their 40s, 50s and even 60s are as good enough as those younger and far younger to them. The also have desire, lust, sexual urge, passion for sex, They are easily turned on, and quickly too, and they also give good response. Try them and find the truth. After all, old is gold, new is silver. It is similar for a younger girl, why she goes for an older man, even much older man.
October 6th, 2011 at 3:16 am
WOW
January 20th, 2012 at 11:23 am
Im 42 years old dating a 49 year old and she says no one even 20 and 30 year old men have been able to do what i do Its rarely amazing I think the longest ever for me and for her! 14 hours one day and will be my personal record erupting exploding and amazing! So i think age has nothing to do with stamina at all its all about physical fitness, keep fit eat right and have passion!!!!!! so to all them dumb ass men that let themselves go, there you go your women will be looking for the youngens or exceptions like myself! LOL
Octavio
January 21st, 2012 at 8:30 pm
Hmm. I partially agree with Nayeli.I am a 40 yr. old woman, met a 23 yr old guy. it started out just a friend with benefits. well he totally played me. I did see the signs but i guess i chose to ignore them. I thought i was older and wiser and would not get sucked in but i did. He would say he loved me. he said he liked older women. text me constantly. I started getting his cig, weekly, phone bill every month. Rides at 2am when he so drunk. Anything he wanted. He took my atm card wiped out my account. now he has nothing to do with me. Used me,got what he wanted and gone!! Exactly, all they want is money and to say they did a older woman. I learned the hard way. He definitely was good at the game and not all so great in bed.