What’s More Important: A Hot Body or Self-Confidence?
According to a study recently conducted by New Zealand anthropologist Barnaby Dixon, the measurements of a woman’s waist and hips are the key to her attractiveness. Dixon presented a group of male volunteers with various photos of a woman that had been digitally altered. The photos of the woman with a waist measurement that was exactly 70% of her hip circumference scored the highest. Apparently the 0.7 waist-to-hip ratio matters even more than cleavage!
I used to date a Jessica Alba lookalike who had that coveted waist-to-hip ratio and sure, she was a sight for sore eyes, but I dumped her after three months. I got pretty tired of watching her spend most of her time and money getting her nails done and buying clothes. She looked good, but the maintenance of her appearance consumed her entire existence. And I was tired of playing second to her manicurist.
After that disappointing experience, I ended up hooking up with a woman who didn’t have that same hourglass figure, but who blew my mind in other ways. She had more of an athletic build and was short. And guess what? She’s my fiancée now! I agree that a 0.7 waist-to-hip ratio is hot, but my fiancée is a perfect example of how there’s so much more that makes a woman attractive.
My fiancée is extremely confident. Although she is the first to admit that she doesn’t have the kind of figure that you’ll see on the cover of a Victoria’s Secret catalog, she is proud of her appearance and that alone gives her a healthy, irresistible glow. On the other hand, my ex, the Jessica Alba lookalike, was unsure of herself, even though every guy drooled when he saw her. If she didn’t have about a pound of makeup on her face, a bottle of hairspray keeping her do together, and the most fashionable outfit in town, she didn’t feel comfortable being out and about. I also felt that her lack of self-confidence affected her performance between the sheets. She acted like a shy schoolgirl in the sack, and that got old after a while.
My fiancée is a whole different story in the bedroom. During our first intimate encounter, she proved to me that I don’t have to be with a cover model-like girl to have the best sex of my life. She wasn’t afraid to be adventurous and experiment with different movements and positions. She didn’t feel embarrassed about doing it with the lights on and didn’t even flinch when I gazed at her naked body. Most girls get embarrassed and tell you to stop looking if you try to feast your eyes on their naked body.
I don’t just mean to give you TMI… I do have a point here. Ladies, those studies and surveys saying that men are attracted to women with a certain waist-to-hip ratio or bra size are garbage. If you are confident about your appearance and good in bed, a man will be glad to ogle at your naked body for hours to come, even if your waist-to-hip ratio is virtually non-existent.
According to sex therapist Betty Arndt, who had 150 men keep personal diaries about their sex lives to write her latest book What Men Want – In Bed, it’s not a particular body type that men desire; men simply want to have good SEX. So, ladies who are searching for a significant other, stop paying attention to silly studies about what men want and focus on building your self-confidence and improving your skills in the bedroom instead. If you’re happy with what you’ve got and you aren’t afraid to use it, you’ll be one thousand times more desirable to a man than any woman with a 0.7 waist-to-hip ratio and no confidence inside or outside of the bedroom.
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