Top 10 signs he is cheating on you
Are you suspicious that your man is having an affair? Even if your dude doesn’t have lipstick on his collar, there are more subtle ways to find out if he’s seeing another missus. Here are 10 of them.
1. He suddenly starts showering you with gifts.
You may feel ultra-flattered that your man is buying you so many nice things, but think for a moment why he’s doing it. More likely than not, he feels guilty and he’s trying to make up for his bad behavior somehow! So, if your man starts buying you gifts out of nowhere, pay attention because something suspicious might be going on.
2. He starts working out
If your man was a couch potato when you met him but suddenly, he starts going to the gym and pursuing a rigorous exercise regimen, it’s possible that he’s seeing somebody else and wants to look hot for his new lover.
3. He spends a lot more time out
Does it take your man three hours to grab milk at the grocery store? Is he always home late because of meetings and other responsibilities at work? It’s possible that he’s been absent so much lately because he’s pursuing a mistress.
4. He has scratches and bruises on his neck or back
If you see your guy with his shirt off and he’s got some scratches and bruises on his neck or back, it could mean that he was attacked by a possum. But more likely than not, he was injured in a moment of fiery passion.
5. His sexual habits have suddenly changed
Does your man want more sex all of a sudden or has he stopped having sex with you completely? If your lover’s sexual habits have changed, it could mean that he’s doing it with somebody else.
6. He is protective of his mobile phone
Mobile phones make cheating – and catching cheaters – far easier than it used to be. If your man is protective of his mobile phone, you have reason to be suspicious. He shouldn’t have anything to hide! If you think your man might be sexting a la Tiger Woods, put on your detective hat and sneak a look at his mobile meanderings.
7. He spends a lot more time online than usual
Thanks to the popularity of online dating, more and more cheaters are taking their affairs online. Sites like Ashley Madison make it much easier for people to get away with cheating. So, if you notice your boyfriend or husband spending far more time than usual on the interwebs, keep a close eye on his online behavior. Even if the 28 year-old LA blonde with a D-cup bra at the other end of the online affair is actually a 40 year-old bricklayer in Wisconsin named Bill, it doesn’t matter because the intention to cheat was clearly there.
8. He stops paying attention to you
Does your man seem cold, inconsiderate, and withdrawn? If you live with your man but find that you barely interact with each other, it could mean that his mind and emotions are elsewhere.
9. He criticizes your appearance
Has your man started criticizing your appearance? If he puts you down or criticizes the physical traits he once used to adore, it could mean that he’s seeing somebody else and you just aren’t measuring up in comparison.
10. He requests more space
If your man suddenly starts requesting more personal space and tells you that he’d like to spend more time alone, he might be trying to figure out how to make more time for his mistress.
Now, I’m not saying that your man is definitely cheating if he displays any of the above behavior. But if you feel in your gut that he’s acting strange and his odd behavior is coupled with one or more of the above, there’s a good chance that you’re being cheated on. So, if your niggling suspicions won’t go away, wait till you find solid proof of his cheating and then confront him with the evidence!
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August 26th, 2010 at 12:54 pm
Well “hot cali guy” sounds like you speak from experience?
I’ve often wondered why someone would go to all the trouble to cheat on their significant other rather than simply breaking up? Yes I know there are close calls and slip-ups but when the sun goes down and you head back to your ranch, there’s only one person you can rely on. Okay two people, yourself and your loved one. So while these cheating warning signs may be real, the bigger question to Mr. Hot guy here is, why do people cheat? Put that in your relationship pipe n’ smoke it. 
March 31st, 2011 at 10:31 am
People opted to cheat than to breakup with their long term partner. It’s like they are afraid to face a new day without them but still wanting to be with someone whom has the long term partner lacks, eg. fantastic sex, personal appearance, attitude. I mean, you can’t really find a person that perfectly fits your ideal person. Everyone has flaws and all but some other people are just so selfish that they want to get everything even if they are already taken. They are the people who are mostly afraid to move and make a big decision in life. Regrets maybe? Or he/she just got sick of the relationship and was looking experience to add it into their relationship. People are unpredictable when in love. I can’t see myself cheating over him because I know to myself it is something that i would regret. yeah, and i dont want someone to do it to me too.
May 3rd, 2011 at 4:18 pm
i think my boyfriend is cheating on me or about to break up with me because 7/10 of these he got he has been critisicing my appearance lately and been openly flirting with my BEST FRIEND right infront of me, he didn’t used to spend loads of time with me but now he spends even less than that i mean i’m lucky to see him once a week. He was quickly to say I love you to me but actually that is a common sign that he will also fall out of love quickly with me too. He is know constantly acting like a complete jerk and I just wanted to have your advice because I was thinking of dumping him first before he dumps me but what about if thats just the way he is and really he actually does love me :/ … ??