I love my gf my split up and working our releationship out slowly due to communication break down.

In all honesty if u are not into that person guy or girl then end it, don’t make it any worse and move on and let them move on, romance can be used as an evil tool.

Straight up if done so then u need kick in the ass, people don’t deserve it and I speak for the genuine people who love there other half.

This guy will what coming to him. Karma is a bitch.

One. Dishonesty is wrong, no matter how you look at it. Hard work put into a bad thing is hard work wasted where it could be focused into making something of your life.

Two. Whatever happened to morals to begin with? Why would this ever be taken as encouragement? What sick minds would get kicks from this and who would ever think to not only be so.. hormonal and lacking in self-control, but to be so heartless as to toy with the hearts of the infinitely more sensitive and tender?

Not to be all sexist. Women are as awesome as guys are, and guys and girls all have the ability to be totally horrible should they choose. We’re all equal. But that we’re different can’t be denied, and nor can the fact that the emotions and feelings of women are far more sensitive than that of guys could ever hope to be.

You know what would happen in a world where this sort of thing was revolting? Where men weren’t some hideous, animalistic, and dominant species that indulged itself whenever with whatever at the expense especially of the women who put themselves–for whatever reason, be it social or personal–under the feet of such creatures?

Where might we be if we sought to uphold a sense of justice, of love, and respect for one another? Are we not equal? Do we not possess the same rights? Why, then, do men exploit the beauty of women to satisfy their own unbridled lusts, and, at times, the other way around? What would the world be like if women were confident enough to assert their status as human beings, and men would not seek to set a standard for “beauty” or “morals” for women that placed them under the label of mere eye candy and pleasure tools?

Holy freak, people. Love eachother. Love yourselves. That you can’t control your thoughts and your feelings and your actions to such a degree is the very reason this nation, nay, this world is falling apart. Women, stand up for yourselves! Dress modestly! Don’t give men the opportunity to use you, be it in their minds or in the real world! Men, get over yourselves! Learn respect and understand that real men don’t seek to satisfy every whim that crosses their fancy. Real men fight for truth, for honor, for equality, and they don’t encourage women to expose themselves so that the men can “enjoy” them.

They’re much more than that, and both men and women should see that when it comes to both sexes. *No* pornography should exist, *no* amount of disrespect should be tolerated so loosely, and *no* human being should be seen as an animal. Mammals we may be, but not without reason are we far above the other creatures of this earth.

To submit yourselves to your bodies is no better than uniting with primates. To master yourselves; to honor one another for what we’re worth; to do away with pride and selfishness and primal instinct for personal confidence, humility.. That is noble. It is truth, and anyone who disagrees is simply fighting truth, and ought to really rethink not only their lives, but their entire philosophy and way of living, for no happiness will come for anyone as a result of their selfish and defiant actions and words.

I’m 34 and my ideal age range is 23-26.

I get guilt trips too about wondering if people think I’m some old pervert because I like younger women.

I think the guy who wrote the story about cheating on his g/f was totally over his current relationship, but didn’t have the balls to leave his comfort zone and dump his g/f instead of cheating on her.

On the one hand, I wouldn’t cheat on someone I had been together with because I wouldn’t risk loosing someone I cared about (I’ve been without for years so I would have an appreciation).

But on the other hand, I always wondered if people thought I was creepy for being interested in girls 9 years younger than myself. Apparently Kelly doesn’t care about your age, so maybe its a sign that I’m cutting myself off unnecessarily.

His fiance called me.

She found an old email from a year ago on his computer and wanted to know if he and I were “still talking” because their wedding was in a month. He told her he “lost my number”. Fact of the matter was he slept in my bed the night before while she was sleeping in his bed waiting for him all night. Unbelievable. I REALLY didn’t see it coming and neither did she.

This goes beyond cheating, it’s fully leading a double life and WHEN you get caught you are going to be exposed as a selfish sociopath. If you are doing this or thinking about doing it, just break up with them instead. Thanks.

Looking back, and now after reading this article, there are things I should have noticed. If a guy is locking his phone or freaking out when you touch it or turning it off all the time when he’s with you, won’t introduce you to his friends (or very few of them) and sees you only on set nights of the week be careful. If he only sees you a few set nights because he has a job that’s one thing, but this was trivia night on Wednesdays (I was never invited), cards with friends all day on most Saturdays, “church group” all of the sudden on Sunday nights when he never went before, etc.

He also started coming with me to the gym a lot. Probably to get in shape for the wedding. . .

I came across this article last week and after reading it, thought to myself:

“Hrmm, this seems a bit familiar”.

After a few days of intelligent investigation on my part (with a little help from my girlfriends)….sure enough, I found out that my boyfriend of 3 years was cheating on me like the ^*&@$% scumbag dog that he is. I knew we had “some” issues, but never in a million years thought it would lead him to cheat on me.

At first I couldn’t believe it, but after going over it repeatedly in my head, the behavior of my (now ex) boyfriend matched up EXACTLY with the guy that wrote this article.

Thank you to whoever owns this website for publishing this article. You should get an award or something for posting this. If you are ever out in New York, shoot me an email and I will take you out to dinner to show my appreciation.

- Kellie S.

Is this guy for reals? What kind of moron cheats on his f%@*$ girlfriend then comes online to brag about it?

I don’t care if she gained 300lbs and has more chins than a Chinese phonebook.

Total lack of class.

He does NOT speak for the majority of the guys out there who are faithful to their girlfriends….just the guys that cheat on their girlfriends.

Thanks for the insight !