What does this mean to you?

Well with more online daters putting themselves out there
comes a bigger probability that you will quickly meet the
person of your dreams. Good luck !!
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Here is the link for the Free $40 value Personality Profile:

Expires: 10/31/2008

I would advise you to take your time and honestly
and accurately fill out the personality questionnaire
to the best of your ability. This is probably the most
important thing you will do in your eHarmony experience.

eHarmony will then take the results of your personality
profile and match you with other eHarmony members
whom you are most compatible with. eHarmony spends
tens of thousands of dollars every year on academic
research with regards to human compatibility and
relationships and then takes their findings and
incorporates them into their services.

Even if you don’t plan on signing up for eHarmony,
TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE OF THE FREE PERSONALITY
PROFILE !!

Why? Well because it is free (duh !!) and because
it is a psychological and scientific-based evaluation
of yourself.

You can then take their findings and begin to see just
how others see you. Ever heard of the old tale “The
Emperor’s New Clothes” ? It is an old fable wherein
everyone told them Emperor that his new clothes
looked so fashionable, when in fact he was wearing
nothing at all. People rarely tell you what they think
about you to your face….wouldn’t you like to be a fly
on the wall when your friends or co-workers are talking
about you behind your back (be it good or bad?). With
the eHarmony personality profile, you can get a really
good insight into how others view you.
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Tip: I would strongly advise you to sign up
for the 6 month subscription because of the
simple fact that you do NOT want to rush into
anything new. When you join eHarmony you will
be matched up with other quality singles who
you will come to find out you are very compatible with.

Why take the first person that comes along and stop there?

Most of us go throughout life just hoping we can meet someone
who will “pass muster”. When people join eHarmony, they are
amazed at how well their matching system works and they
want to take their time in getting to know as many singles
as they can, so they can chose the best of the best.
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Hot tip:

I have gotten the pleasure of getting to know (in real life
and via email) many past and current members of
eHarmony. They have sent me emails detailing
their eHarmony experience and success stories. I have
noticed that there is one thing that the more successful
eHarmony daters have in common. They signed up
for the 6 month subscription. When I questioned them
as to why they chose 6 or 12 month
subscription over the 1 or 3 month subscription
the answer was always the same:

“Why take the first good thing that comes along?”

If you have never been a member of eHarmony before,
you are in for a big shock once you join. You will be
matched with other singles that you will come to find
out you are so compatible with. Most people have never
experienced this strong of a degree of compatibility in
their lives before. So take your time. Be happy that
for the next 6 months that you are a member of eHarmony,
you will undertake an amazing journey of dating and self
discovery. Take your time and carefully chose that
person whom you feel a soul mate connection with.
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Do you have a friend who is always complaining about
a “good man or woman is hard to find” ? Tired of hearing
them complain about the last “loser” they went out on
a date with? Then buy them an eHarmony gift subscription.
This way the next time you guys meet and you ask them
about their love life…..you will be hearing them sing a totally
different song. I bought my friend a gift subscription to eHarmony
and when we all get together, all she does is talk about
the great guys she has been dating. A far cry from the losers
and scumbags she used to meet at the bar scene.

Online dating has been around for over 10 years now
but only recently has it become more “mainstream”
wherein people aren’t embarrassed to tell others that
they are or were a member of an online dating service.
With the advent of such “high end” online dating
services such as
and their commercials running 24/7 on the television,
more and more singles who have never tried online
dating are giving it a shot.

So why join an online dating service?

The short answer to that question is: quantity and quality.
The long answer is a bit more complicated.

There really is no “right way” or “place” to meet
new people in this day and age. You could get
lucky and meet the guy/girl of your dreams
while you are standing in line in the supermarket.
(this has NEVER happened to me, but I have heard
it happens on occasion). You could be introduced
to your future boyfriend/girlfriend by a common
acquaintance.

In light of all the potential ways and places to
meet someone new, I have chosen to compare/contrast
online dating versus a tried and true method of
meeting new men and women: The bar scene.

Love it or hate it, the bar scene has been the
proverbial Serengeti watering hole for singles
looking to mingle for hundreds of years. Long
before the advent of the internet and online
dating, singles would generally congregate
at their local bars in the semi-high hopes of
meeting a local hottie. Of course, with all
the booze and beer that is served in a bar,
“impaired judgment” was a very common occurrence
and you really couldn’t get an accurate picture
of the person that you were talking to in a bar
because …..well let’s face it. Alcohol makes
people horny and looking for your soulmate
was probably the last thing on your list when
a pair of “DD’s” planted themselves firmly
on the barstool next to you…..

So why choose online dating over the bar
scene?

1. Checking out the dating pool, without
having to interact with the old, slobbering
drunk guy staring at your breasts.
With online dating, you can check out other
people’s profiles from the comfort and saftey
of your home. You choose who you want to
communicate with and that communication
stays within the email or instant messenger
service until the time of your choosing.

2. Safety.
Online dating is one of the safest ways to
meet new people. You have complete
control over the interacting experience
and chose when and where and if
you so chose to give out your personal
information. Many online dating sites
such as eHarmony screen potential new
users so that only the creme de la creme
are allowed to join their services.

3. Diversity.
Are you into any less than mainstream
alternative lifestyles or dating? There are
many online dating sites out there that
cater to Gay dating, Lesbian dating,
Asian dating, Hispanic dating, “hookup”
dating and so on. With these sites you
know that the person that you are
talking to is looking for the same thing you are.

4. Price.
Most of the online dating sites cost anywhere
from $19.99 a month to $39.99 a month. When
taken into consideration, that is what you would
pay for a Friday night out at your local bar
(probably less, depending on what you like to
drink).

5. No embarrassing moments.
Ever been to a bar and saw a hottie that
you thought was checking you out….and
you walk over and come to find out that
they were actually checking out
one of your friends. Yikes !

With online dating, you know instantly
whether or not someone is interested in
you because they too have the ability to
choose whom they wish to communicate
with and who they don’t.

6. Law of averages.
How many times do you go out to a bar
every month? Let’s say the average person
goes 4x a month. Now how many new
people (that you would give your phone
number out to) do you meet every time
you are out? Again, let’s shoot low and
say “2″. So that’s 2 people every week for
4 weeks. 8 new people you meet
every month who might have “potential”.
Now how much money do you spend on
going out every month, with the high hopes
of meeting someone new? When you finally
add it all up, it can be quite costly to maybe
meet 10 new people every month.

With online dating, you have access to a pool
of thousands of people who are in the same
situation you are. Looking for someone new
and tired of the “bar scene”.

If you have never tried an online dating service,
then my advice to you would be to take a
break from the bar scene. Turn down the next
blind date your friends set you up on and give
online dating a shot. The bar scene is full
of scumbags and losers and that’s on a good night !!

If the bar scene is your thing, try to use is as just
a social gathering for you and your friends and don’t
go out with the specific purpose of meeting someone
new. Chances are it won’t happen or if it does, you
will wind up with the wrong person.

Good luck !!

I do relationship counseling and whenever I get a new
client, I give them a homework assignment of going
online and filling out an eHarmony personality profile.
I then ask them to take the results of the eHarmony
personality profile and really study them to see
exactly how other people see them. 9 times out
of 10, the people are very surprised with the results.

The eHarmony personality profile is always evolving and
becoming better as the days go by. eHarmony spends
tens of thousands of dollars on relationship and dating
research in order to continually update and make better
their personality profile.

Of course, if you do plan on signing up for eHarmony,
the personality profile is key in how eHarmony determines
who you are most compatible with. This is why it is
very critical that you take your time and answer the
questions as honestly and accurately as possible.
Don’t try to second guess as to why they are asking
you a certain question. The eHarmony personality
profile is scientifically built and engineered to give
you an honest look at yourself.
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If you wish to renew at the end of your
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Editorial comment:

I would advise you to sign up for the 6 month
subscription. Why? For the simple fact that
you don’t want to marry the first person
you meet. Granted your chances of meeting
that special someone on eHarmony is 100x
greater than other online dating sites, but
don’t settle for the first person that comes
your way. Take the next 6 months to date
and sample the proverbial dating flavors.
If a relationship was meant to be, then nit
will happen, regardless of how long you wait.

In other words: Don’t rush and take your time !!
Remember that anything rushed into, is usually
half-assed, so invest some time into your online
dating experience and enjoy !!
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=======================================
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If one of your friends is constantly complaining about
“A good man/woman is so hard to find” and you are
tired of hearing them bitch, moan and complain, then
you might need to help them help themselves.

Buy them an eHarmony gift subscription and before you
know it they will be regaling you with tales of dating
successes rather than crying about how nobody wants
them and they will never find anyone.

Sometimes fate just needs a good nudge

Check back often as we update this site with a complete
list of APPROVED eHarmony promotional code which will
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Good luck and God Bless !!

Beware of foreign-based websites
(outside of the USA)that claim to have
the latest eHarmony promotional codes.
These codes are NOT authorized by eHarmony
to be released to the general public. These
are internal codes that eHarmony uses for
special promotions for a select group of people.
If you use one of these unauthorized eHarmony
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your card/account at risk.

We post only eHarmony promotional codes
that are directly approved by eHarmony. The discounts
for the “unapproved” codes are the exact same discounts
you will find in the codes on this site. The only difference
is that this site (http://OnlineDatingMatches.com) is
approved by eHarmony to list their promotional codes.

Be safe, be smart, and good luck in finding the love
of your life !!

Make sure to check back here often as we provide the latest
eHarmony promotional codes that have been authorized by
eHarmony. OnlineDatingMatches has been given explicit
permission by eHarmony to list their promotional codes.
Why is this for? Because there are many unauthorized
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Why get creative when breaking up?

The socially acceptable way to break up
with someone is to do it in person, be calm
and explain the reasons and then distance
yourself from your ex as much as possible.

Sometimes this doesn’t work. Maybe your
boyfriend/girlfriend is very controlling and
persuasive and you know that if you try
to break up, they will only wind up convincing
you to stay with them. Maybe you don’t
like confrontation and the inevitable negative
emotions that go along with breaking up
with someone in person. Maybe you
just want to leave town tonight, fly
to Tahiti and paint nude men/women
on the beach for the rest of your life….

Whatever your reason, I now present to you
10 creative ways to break up with someone:

1. Take out a billboard.
Figure out which route/street they take to
work every morning and buy billboard space
for a week. If you really want to rub it in,
buy the space for a month, and make sure it is in
an area where they cannot take a detour
to work. If you REALLY want to rub it in,
then find a hot guy/girl and take a picture
of the two of you together and put that
on the billboard.

2. Text Message
Nothing says: “It’s over” more quickly
and to the point than a simple text message.
No mess, no having to listen to them bitch,
moan, cry and complain and best of all
you can turn off your cell phone to avoid
having to hear them whine and moan.

3. “I’m not gay, but I can learn”.
Tell them that you recently developed
a sudden attraction to a member of the
same sex.

Guys:
Start speaking with a lisp and tell
her that you found this “really cute” bar
in the gay district of your local area. A thick
bushy mustache and black leather pants
with a hole cut out for your ass-cheeks
to breathe will only add to the ambiance.

Girls:
Butch hair cut, Dickies boots, flannel shirt
Then, learn to roll your own tampons
and buy a vibrator that requires you to
kick-start it in order to turn it on.

4. Hire a Barbershop Quartet.
Nothing says “I want to break up with you”
better than 5 guys showing up on their
front doorstep, dressed in white and red
striped uniforms with straw top hats singing:

It’s over
oveer
oveeer
oveeeer !!!

5. Send them on a treasure hunt.

Pick 5 spots in the area where you live. It could
be the mall, the park, the beach, Starbucks, wherever.
Leave a note that leads to the next spot in a hidden area.
At the final spot leave the breakup note. If they are
not too bright, they will entertain themselves for hours
on end before the find the final breakup note.

6. Let yourself go.
Stop taking showers, gain a few pounds, don’t use
deodorant, whatever it takes to make yourself
SO physically repulsive that the dirty deed will
handle itself. Just make sure you can reverse the
damage, lest you be stuck with a penis tattoo
across your forehead for the rest of your life….

Girls: dress like a total slut when you go out.
Let your boobs hang out, short mini skirts and
gobs of makeup will surely do the trick.

7. Dine and ditch.
Suggest that you and your significant other
go out to dinner. Right after the food is delivered
to your table, excuse yourself to the bathroom
to go wash your hands. Find your waiter in the back
and hand him a note that you wrote and ask him
to give it to your significant other. Then leave.

BETTER YET:

Before you leave: Tell your waiter/waitress
that it is your significant others birthday.
Ask them to hand them the breakup note
and wait for them to read it, before 7 waiters
spontaneously bursting out into
“Happy Birthday to you” !!!

If you really think about it…this is his/hers
very first “being single” birthday. Why not
celebrate ??!!

8.   Bait and switch
This works better for girls, but guys can do it too…

Girls: Find another girl that you think your boyfriend
would be attracted to. Then tell her that you want
to set her up on a blind date with “a really hot guy”.
It works best if she doesn’t know he is your boyfriend.
Then make plans to meet up with your boyfriend one
night. As soon as you see your boyfriend, introduce
him to the girl and tell him that you are breaking up
with him, and send him on his way with the new girl.
That way he won’t feel lonely or sad, he will have a
new girl to get to know and everything will be better.

9. Brother can you spare a dime?
Start acting like a total cheap-ass. Don’t buy her
things, don’t take her out at night. Why stop there?
With gas being so expensive nowadays, why do you
have to pick her up when the both of you are going
out for the night? Give her a bus pass with a small
note saying that you “wanted to do your part in saving
the environment and minimizing your carbon footprint”.
Break up with your evil girlfriend, save the environment
AND save a buck or two ????

Yes.
Please.

10. Jesus Freak !!!
Nothing will make your significant other turn tail
and run the other way faster than you taking her
to your local Jehovah’s Witness hall for a fun filled
weekend of going door-to-door passing out pamphlets
and trying to find ways of “being more moral”.

There you have it. 10 ways to break up with your
boyfriend or girlfriend. Take these 10 items with
a grain of salt, or expand upon them and really
go out with a bang !!

When you finally decide to get back into the dating
game, make sure to visit this site for comprehensive
online dating reviews so that you can pick the correct
online dating site. This way you will hopefully never have
to break up with someone like this ever again.

Good luck !!

In order to take advantage of free communication
weekend eHarmony is offering, goto the
page and fill out a free eHarmony personality profile.

Make sure to take your time in filling out the eHarmony
personality profile and be completely honest and accurate
in your answers. Upon completion of the questionnaire,
eHarmony will then present to you their analysis of
your personality and then show you whom you are most
compatible with. You will then be able to communicate
with your matches for free !!

If you had an eHarmony subscription in the past and
let your membership expire, now is the time to create
a new personality profile and take some time to check
out the available singles on eHarmony.

Even if you don’t plan on signing up for eHarmony, it would
be in your best interest to take advantage of the free
personality profile ($40 value). eHarmony’s analysis is
spot-on and will show you exactly how other people
see you. You can then take this information (print it out)
and then refer to it later on.

Good luck !!!

Take your time in filling out the eHarmony personality profile.
eHarmony spends tens of thousands of dollars every year to
support academic research into human compatibility. eHarmony
then takes their latest scientific findings and incorporates
them into their personality profile. It is unlike anything you
have seen before… It is also very important to be completely
honest in the questions that the personality profile asks you.
The reason being is because after you are done, eHarmony
then shows you a huge report about your personality and the
type of person that you are. They then show you the
members on eHarmony whom you are MOST compatible with.
Don’t worry because the other members cannot see the results
of your personality profile (unless you chose otherwise).
Even if you don’t plan on signing up for eHarmony, take a
few minutes to fill out the personality profile. It is a great
tool to see yourself as how others see you.

Ever try looking in a mirror? Chances are, if you weren’t
moving your lips, the mirror was not talking back to you.
Picture the eHarmony personality profile as a talking mirror….
That reflects the true person that you are.
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page for all of the latest unadvertised
discounts/promotions that eHarmony is running. I found
out about the “Free Communication Weekend”
this way.
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(”ONLINEDATINGMATCHAAA” was last month’s
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=======================================
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Expires: August 31st, 2008
If you wish to renew at the end of your 6 months
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This is an awesome deal because let’s face it….
eHarmony has TONS of quality members, but
are you really going to marry the first guy/girl
that you go out on a date with????

I would advise you to take your time and don’t
rush into a relationship. The matches eHarmony
gives you are all top notch and who knows
who is just around the corner?

For once in your life take the time to enjoy
dating quality singles instead of the losers
and low-lifes you meet at the local bar or
through “well meaning” friends.
=======================================
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Expires: August 31st, 2008

Note: CJFALLPROMO07 may still work beyond the
expiration date of 7/31/08
=======================================
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is no need to enter in an eHarmony promotional code

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If you know of someone that is constantly failing
in the dating game, you can always buy them
an eHarmony gift subscription. This is a great
way to (nicely) force them to get off their lazy
asses, get away from the bars and gutters and
start meeting (and dating) quality singles.

I had a friend who always complained that
“a good man is hard to find”, yet her idea
of “looking for a man” was going to the local
dive bar and getting slosh-faced drunk. I got
tired of hearing her sob stories so for her Birthday
I bought her a 6 month eHarmony gift subscription
(used one of the eHarmony promo codes above)
and within the first 4 months she had gone out
on almost 8 dates. She was semi ambitious in
looking for “Mr. Right” so she spent a lot of time
dating new people she met off eHarmony.
She is now currently in a committed relationship
with what she calls “the love of my life”.

In order to use these eHarmony promotional code,
just goto the eHarmony
page and fill out a free personality profile. Then
choose your membership (1,3,6,12 months) and come
back to this site. Note which ever eHarmony promotional code
that you want to use (and the discount) and then look for the
box labeled “coupon code” and enter in the applicable eHarmony
coupon code. If you so decide to take advantage of the eHarmony
discount links, then just scroll up and click whatever link that you
want the discount(s) to be automatically applied to your shopping cart.

Whatever it is, whatever the reason, low self esteem
is only going to harm you when it comes to dating.
People naturally are attracted to other people who
have high self esteem. Low self esteem is seen by others
as “low self worth”. If you are single, you are naturally
looking for someone who is of value in one way or another.
This means that people naturally put a “value” on other
people that they meet during the course of their lives.
High self esteem is very important to attracting
(and keeping) someone that you want to date. The question
now begs: “How does one go about getting high self esteem?”

Not all of us are super models. Not everyone
has a “perfect body”, not everyone has money and a nice
car. First off you have to analyze yourself and try to see
how others view you, then you need to figure out what
things in life, or what qualities you have that are great.
Whenever someone asks me “how do I go about trying
to figure out how other people view me”, I simply suggest
they ask a close friend, or loved one to give them their
thoughts. Although sometimes their thoughts and views
can be biased (”well, my mommy told me I was good”….).

I suggest you take advantage of some of the free tools
out there on the internet. One very good tool is the
.

eHarmony spends hundreds of thousands of dollars every year
in researching human compatibility/relationships. They then take
their findings and incorporate it/update into their free online
personality profile quiz. I have people take this personality
profile because it is completely free, with no credit
card required (you are not obligated to sign up for
eHarmony if you take their personality profile quiz)
and it gives you an honest view as to
how other people see you. The results of your
personality profile are several pages in length
and go into great detail about your personality.

Once you have that in hand, print it out for
future reference.

Now it is time to begin building on your self esteem.
Take a look at the personality profile then compare
it as to how you see yourself. What qualities do you
bring to the table? What unique things can you
offer that special someone? Why should someone
chose you over that hottie they gave their phone
number to last week?

The answers to these questions may take some
time to figure out. In the meantime, here are
some short-term solutions as to how you can
improve your self-confidence:

1. Don’t think negative thoughts.
Ever heard the saying “You are what you eat?”
Well in this case, you are what you think. If you
constantly think you can’t do something, chances
are you are right. If you have never really
experienced success in life, I would suggest this
be the first thing you work on. In a matter of a
few short days/weeks or months you will begin
to experience that little thing in life people call
“success”.

2. Envision yourself in your mind the way you
want to be seen by others.
So you have a fat stomach, so you aren’t that attractive,
so you think everyone laughs at you…..Big deal !!!
The only reason people think those things
about you is because that is how you see yourself.
You may think that the thoughts inside your head
are private and only heard by you…..but you are dead
wrong. What goes on inside that little head of yours
is subconsciously transferred to your outside persona.
Try thinking about yourself in a good light, instead
of a bad light. Instead of you being “fat”, you are
merely just a few pounds overweight.
You walk a few miles a week so you are trying to
lose the weight. etc. Get the idea? Think about
yourself in a good light….and it will come to fruition.

3. Stop the inner critic.
This one kind of goes hand in hand with #2.
Simply put: Don’t put yourself down inside your head !!
Thomas Edison had a saying:

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.

It’s as simple as that. You only fail when
you stop trying, so quit being so harsh on
yourself. Would you like it if someone in
real life kept putting you down as much as
you put youself down inside your head
on a daily basis? Hell no !! You would
probably want to punch that person in the face
a few times.

4. Be your own cheer leading squad.
The exact opposite of #3. Cheer yourself
on a daily basis, even for the most mundane
accomplishments in life. This may seem
a bit stupid, but over time this happy thinking
reinforces good self confidence.

5. Avoid negative comparisons to others.
I have seen this all too often. A guy goes
out on a date with a really “hot chick” and
he thinks that he can’t get her because he
doesn’t have a lot of money, or isn’t that
good looking compared to other guys. This
is a great way to reduce your value with a
member of the opposite sex. Once
you start comparing yourself to others in
that (and other) regards, you have set
yourself up for failure. If you feel that
you must compare, compare against yourself
against how you were 1 month ago. Once
you start thinking along those lines, you
will see success and progress will follow suit.

6. Make a list of your accomplishments in life so far
I really don’t need to explain this one.
Just do it and you will start to realize
that your low self esteem is nothing more
than:

“In your head”.

God Bless and good luck with your online dating endeavors !!

Note: Generally speaking, the “Bi” online dating services
are coupled in with the Gay and Lesbian online dating sites.
So don’t think I’m excluding you gals and guys !!
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Gay Friend Finder

If you are looking for a Gay hookup sex/swingers and dating site,
look no further….this is the “Big Daddy” of them all !!
Gay Friend Finder allows you to register for free
as a member and browse the tens of thousands of
available singles. In addition, most members have
webcams at their home that they turn on so
you can watch them while chatting with them. You
can also hook up your webcam and broadcast yourself
to anyone who wants to chat/watch. As far as ease
of navigation goes, Gay Friend Finder is really intuitive.
You have a myriad of search options available to you.
Gay Friend Finder has a huge data base of members
and there are thousands of members online at any
given time. The prices are reasonable, and on
par with any mainstream online dating source.
Without a doubt, the webcam feature has to be
the one thing that makes this site really shine.

The Friend Finder family of websites also has the
Lesbian alternative to Gay Friend Finder simply called:
Lesbian Personals.
It is essentially a carbon copy of the Gay Friend Finder
site, although a bit more aesthetically designed.

If the hookup/sex/swingers lifestyle isn’t your cup of
Earl Grey, then here are a few sites that are more geared
towards relationships and actual dating. (anyone ever wish
they would come out with a “Gay and Lesbian” version
of eHarmony? Quality Gay and Lesbian Singles….)
So far, I have not found one yet. Keep checking this
thread because I will update it immediately if one comes out.

is geared towards Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, as well as
Transgender people. It is pretty much considered the
premier Gay and Lesbian online dating service out there.
With Gay.com, you aren’t just getting a site that caters
to Gay people, but rather you are getting the complete
Gay and Lesbian experience. The site has many articles
and extra features that make it a deep user experience
and really allow the Gay and Lesbian community to
connect. There is also a feature for some of the more
“frisky” members…..you can view videos and and check
out hot pictures. Instant messaging is also available
for members to chat in a safe environment while online.

Here are the following Gay.com coupons and Gay.com
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I was recently looking for a cheap, fast, online dvd
rental website and found the following link for:

Blockbuster Total Access is from the same brick-and-mortar
company Blockbuster. With the two week online dvd rental
free trial, you can order dvd movies from the comfort of your
home and have them shipped straight to your mailbox
(my experience has been that it is usually a 24 hour
turnaround time). This way you don’t have to worry about
fighting the crowds in-store or worrying about if the latest
movie that you want to see has already been rented out.
I believe you can also rent video games as well.

The online dvd rental wars have been going on now for
several years. Netflix.com has been hot on Blockbuster’s
heels and is now offering a $4.99/mo. 2 out at a time plan.

Want another tip? Instead of going to your local supermarket
to buy snacks for watching a movie with that special someone
(and paying $10-$15), goto your local dollar store. Where I live,
they have the .99 cents store and I got a ton of candy, popcorn
and drinks for under $5.00.

I recently had the opportunity to speak with a representative
of eHarmony and was informed that this time of year is considered
the “busy season” for new members on eHarmony. What does this
mean for you? Tens of thousands of new singles looking for love
and relationship online mean that your chances of finding that
someone special are stronger than ever !
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Here is the link for the Free $40 value Personality Profile:

Expires 7/31/2008

If you are new to eHarmony, take your time in filling
out the personality profile. It is an in depth analysis
of your personality and based upon your answers,
eHarmony will then show their members who you
are most compatible with. You will be able to
view your matches (for free) after the completeion
of the personality profile.

You can also use the eHarmony personality profile
as a tool to see yourself how others see you.
eHarmony gives you a detailed analysis of your
personality that you can print out and save for
future reference. Sometimes it is best to view
ourselves with the eyes of others to see how
other people really view us.

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who is single and keeps complaining how a “good man or woman is hard to find”
then buy them an eHarmony gift subscription and watch how quickly they
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Here is how you use an eHarmony promotional code:

1.
2. Once you fill out the Personality Profile eHarmony will
then present to you their analysis (which is SPOT ON) of
you. You will be able to view your matches whom eHarmony
deems most compatible with you.
3. After you choose your monthly subscription (1,3,6 or 12 months)
Then take the eHarmony promotional code listed above and
enter into the box labeled “eHarmony promotional code”.
4. Viola ! You have just saved yourself a considerable amount
of money and are well on your way to finding the love of your life !

These eHarmony codes change from month to month and
sometimes eHarmony offers promotions that are found nowhere
else but on their main website. This is usually the case for the
eHarmony free communication weekend. Generally speaking,
the main page on eHarmony will announce the free
communication weekend long before it is released to
the public. eHarmony has also come a long way in
many different aspects as compared to how they
were just a few short years ago. Check back soon
for our comprehensive in depth eHarmony review !

eHarmony promotional code are great ways to
save money on your monthly eHarmony.com
membership. What makes eHarmony so good?
One of the reasons is that eHarmony invests
in scientific studies regarding relationships
and couples. They then use the data found
by the scientists to make eHarmony an even
better place ! Make sure you use the
eHarmony coupon codes to save some money
because there is no other online dating
site out there that can give you the kind
of rich user experience that eHarmony does !

Over the past few years the area in Southern California
known as Orange County has become a household
word and featured in such films and t.v. shows as:

The Real Housewives of Orange County
Laguna Beach
The O.C. and many more.

Orange County is best known for its wealth
and abundance of beautiful people, which is
why it has gotten so much t.v. and movie
coverage over the years. Affluent communities like
Coto De Caza, Newport Bluffs and areas of Irvine
showcase fabulous wealth, beauty and power.

So where do all of the available singles in the OC goto
when they want to meet someone new?
Here are the top 5 places to meet hot singles
in Orange County:

(note: The following list is my own personal
list of “hot spots” to meet singles in Orange
County. None of the bars/restaurants/hot spots
have paid to be listed here)

1. Pierce Street Annex
330 E 17th St
Costa Mesa, CA 92627-3293
Phone: (949) 646-8500

Without a doubt, the place to meet hot young singles
in Orange County. Pierce Street is a great bar/dance
club. People from all over the OC flock to Pierce Street
on any given night for their cheap booze, no cover charge
and tons of hot singles. They are open until 2am.
On Sundays, they fire up the outdoor BBQ and feature
live music from 4-8pm. Pool tables and a small dance floor
are always packed full. This is a great casual bar for the
20-something crowds and there are always hot girls
and hot guys on any given night.

2.
BeachFire Grill in Ladera Ranch
The BeachFire Grill is a restaurant and bar that features not only
great food and some of the coldest beer you will ever drink,
but also has a surf art gallery featuring some of the best
local surf artists out there.
Since it is located in the affluent community of Ladera Ranch
and next to nearby Coto De Caza you might be rubbing elbows with
anyone of the famous affluent people, sports stars and celebrities
that make South Orange County their home. I used to live in Ladera
and have personally seen several of the “Real Housewives of Orange
County” mixing and mingling inside. BeachFire is a great place to just
chill out and enjoy life. Check out their Myspace page:

3.Fashion Island, Newport Beach
With its elegantly designed architecture
and countless high end shops and boutiques,
Fashion Island attracts many of the wealthiest
(and beautiful) people in Orange County. Located
just miles from the Pacific Ocean, Fashion Island
is a great place to meet local singles. Take a walk
down there and you will see what I mean.

4. Shark Club, Costa Mesa
The only predators you will find at this club are
in the centerpiece 2,000-gallon shark tank.
Centrally located in Costa Mesa, Ca. the
Shark Club is a great bar and grill where locals
from all over Orange County come to mix and
mingle. There are 2 huge dance floors and
the prices are very cheap. Saturday nights
are probably the best time to visit the Shark
Club.

5. Irvine Spectrum
The Irvine Spectrum is located in the middle of Irvine, California.
It is a gargantuan outdoor shopping plaza with shops,
restaurants, movie theater, bars and anything else
you could imagine. I chose the Irvine Spectrum as
the #5 OC hot spot to meet singles because it is
always packed on any given night and there are tons of
bars like Dave and Busters and the Yard House. If you
are looking for hot singles in Orange County, the Irvine
Spectrum is a great place to see and be seen.

There you have it. If you are an OC singles
or just curious about what all the hype is about, there are
5 places to check out to meet new people. If you are looking
for online dating for Orange County, check out .
Traffic levels indicate that singles in Orange County search
flock to eHarmony over any other online dating site. This is
primarily because most of the singles in Orange County
look for quality over quantity and eHarmony attracts quality
singles.

If you are a busy professional single in Orange County and
are looking for something a little more “high end” than your
run of the mill online dating site, then be sure to check out
a site called “It’s just lunch”. It’s Just Lunch has been featured
in many prominent magazines and newspapers and is the new
thing for busy professional singles.

It’s Just Lunch: There’s nothing to lose but your single life.

eHarmony was originally founded by a Christian minister,
Dr. Neil Clark Warren. By now, you have probably seen
their t.v. commercials running 24/7, but what you probably
don’t know is that eHarmony is widely regarded as the
biggest and best Christian online dating site out there. eHarmony
has been recommended by many pastors and ministers
and is a safe and fun way to meet like minded Christians.

The prices for eHarmony are somewhat higher than other
online dating services, but your chances of meeting that
special someone who shares your faith is much higher, due
to the advertising campaign and thousands of new members
that join eHarmony daily.

ChristianCafe is another great online dating site. It specifically
caters to all denominations of Christians, including:

Adventist singles
Apostolic singles
Methodist singles
Baptist singles
Orthodox singles
Catholic singles
Pentecostal singles
Episcopalian singles
Presbyterian singles
Lutheran singles
United Pentecostal singles

While ChristianCafe may not be as big as eHarmony
nor as widely know, its strong point is that is it an
online dating site specifically for Christians. Many local
ministers and priests have recommended ChristianCafe
to members of their flock. Check out the main page and
you will see many testimonials from members who have
found the love of their life.

The prices for ChristianCafe are very reasonable and
a lot lower than other high end online dating sites.

ChristianCafe is so confident that you will like
their services, they are offering a free trial.
Click here for a 10 day free trial
to

Here is a few of the many areas that you can find
Christian Singles looking for love:

Los Angeles Christian singles
Omaha Christian singles
Milwaukee Christian singles
New York Christian singles

I went to Blacksingles online dating site and was VERY impressed.
Usually these niche dating sites look like they were thrown
together in a matter of hours by some middle school student
for his mid-term computer class project. BlackSingles is
very well laid out, easy to navigate and has some damn
fine people on there, both men and women. What impressed
me the most was the features on BlackSingles. Let’s take a
closer look at them:

- Free to join.
This is probably the biggest draw to the site. It is free
to join and free to view your matches.

- Free chat room.
Bored? Looking to chat with someone? Then pop into the
chat room and connect with the singles that are online.

- Advice forums.
BlackSingles has a huge online dating advice section
and their members participate regularly. The articles
are well thought out and they are chock-full of advice
to help you succeed in your online dating experience.

- Safety.
Blacksingles is committed to protecting your identity
and safety while dating online. They have many security
features in place that will allow for a safe, but fun online
dating experience.

- Millions of members.
There are millions of members to choose from and you can
browse anyone from any part of the country and chat with
them. BlackSingles is the premier Black online dating site
and each day thousands of new members are joining.

If you are serious about meeting a black person to date, I would
highly recommend this site to increase your chances of success.

So what makes the BlackSingles site so special?
You are simply going to find a bigger pool of Black
people looking to date. If you only date Black people,
then you might be better off joining this site because
statistically speaking, you will have a better chance
at meeting that special someone. What are you waiting for?
Join now and

Two notable new features:

- Mailbox Matching
If you are getting too many emails from people who you deem
“not compatible” then the email inbox will automatically
pre-screen potential emails for only the qualities in
a person that you have specified.

- Yahoo Personals 6 month guarantee.
If you don’t find someone by the end of your 6 months, they will give
you another 6 months for free. To my knowledge, I do
not know of any other online dating site out there that
has such an offer.

Summer is here !!

It is still not too late to join eHarmony and take advantage of their
special summer offers that will not only save you money on your
membership, but also increase your chances in finding that
special someone to share summer fun and memories with.

Now is the best time of the year to join eHarmony because
traditionally, June is the busy season for online dating services.
Quality singles flock to eHarmony (due in part to their t.v.
commercials that run 24/7) during this time of the year because
they do not want to spend the summer months alone and by
themselves.

New ! If you have already joined eHarmony, or another online
dating service and find yourself in a bit of a “funk” then check out
the

Here are the latest eHarmony.com promotional codes and special
summer discounts for the month of June 2008:
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Here is the link for the Free $40 value Personality Profile:

Expires 6/30/2008

If you are new to eHarmony, I would advise you to take
your time in filling out this personality profile and answer
all questions as honestly as you can. Reason being is
that eHarmony takes this data and analyzes it then
matches you with the singles in their system that are
most compatible with you.

Don’t try to second-guess the questions asked, as this
personality profile was designed by a team of psychologists
and University professors and is designed to elicit a natural
response from you so that they can accurately gauge your
personality traits and preferences and then match you
will compatible singles.

eHarmony is also allowing you to view (for free) the
singles that they say you are most compatible with.
Just fill out the personality profile, get your instant
report and then goto the last page where eHarmony
shows you the singles on their site that you are most
compatible with . Take advantage of this because it
totally free and costs you nothing !!

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Hot Tip: Check out the
page for all of the current unadvertised
promotions that eHarmony is running. I found
out about the “Free Communication Weekend”
this way.
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Note: CJFALLPROMO07 may still work
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enter in an eHarmony promotional code.

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eHarmony Marriage is a great way for couples to settle their differences
or to fine tune their relationship. eHarmony allows you and your partner
to take the quiz for free and view the results. This is a great way to see
what the professionals over at eHarmony Marriage have to say about your
current relationship based upon your answers.

eHarmony marriage takes an in-depth look at your relationship and
presents solutions that really work. You don’t even have to be
married (boyfriend/girlfriend issues that never seem to be resolved?)
to take advantage of what eHarmony marriage has to offer.
First off they ask you to fill out a high individualized
personality profile. After you are finished answering the questions,
eHarmony puts together a marriage personality profile, which is
surprisingly dead-on. Then you (and your partner) are taken through
twelve 20-minute online video exercises which are really fun and
entertaining (without being judgmental or preachy). The eHarmony
marriage course is designed by psychologists and family counselors
and is intended to help you and your significant other work through,
and help resolve any issues that you may be facing.

Let’s face it….for the price of a Saturday night out (dinner and a
movie) you can join eHarmony marriage and get the help for your
relationship that you so desperately need. This is about 5x
cheaper than paying a relationship counselor to sit down and
analyze you in real life.

What if your significant other thinks this is “stupid” or “dumb” or
refuses to seek out professional help? Well if you suggest to
him/her that you think you might need to see a shrink in real life
to save the relationship, then they might take a defensive stance.
A great way to “trick” them into getting help is to have them sit
down with you at the computer one night, and you suddenly
“discover” this eHarmony marriage questionnaire (wink wink).
If you play your cards right, your significant other
will readily participate in the eHarmony marriage process without
even knowing that they are actively participating in helping to
fix your relationship.

Even if your relationship is not on the proverbial rocks, eHarmony
marriage is also designed to help couples “fine tune” their current
relationship to make it stronger and better. You need to do nothing
other than fill out the eHarmony marriage questionnaire and
based upon your answers to the questions asked, eHarmony will
present to you the right part of the relationship program that
you need.

This is a great

If you haven’t been to Yahoo Personals in a while, you might not
recognize it. They have totally revamped their site to make it easier
to find the person that you are looking for. The controls and functions
are intuitive and it didn’t take long for me to create a profile and start
browsing the available local singles.

Don’t forget to try out Yahoo Personals new .
The Advanced Singles Search is based upon compatibility systems similar
to that of the higher end online dating sites (eHarmony and PerfectMatch).

Good luck this summer !!

eHarmony has recently launched “eHarmony.ca” and “eHarmony.au”
and are basically a carbon copy of eHarmony.com (for the U.S.).
The prices for eHarmony.ca are in Canadian dollars and are roughly
equivalent to the prices of
The same goes for eHarmony.au. The eHarmony.ca promotional codes
and eHArmony.au coupon codes are exactly the same as the
eHarmony.com promotional code.

If you are from Australia, then goto the main page
to get a 7 day free trial to eHarmony.com.au. eHarmony is giving out a
FULL MEMBERSHIP trial for 7 days to our good friends down under. (o.k. I’m
a little jealous here…) Moving on….

A cool feature that I discovered is that you can change the country
that you live in on eHarmony. American men and women just not doing
it for you? Why not give our friendly neighbors to the north a try, eh?
If maple leafs and mounties just aren’t your cup of tea…..try changing
your country to Australia and see if you can’t find yourself matched
with of the many hot Aussie men and women out there (and believe
me, Australia has no shortage of hot men and women).

OnlineDatingMatches.com has been given an exclusive
eHarmony promotional code
which will give you the following discount:

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click link below and enter the promo code:

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If you goto the top of this page and look to your left, there will
be a link to our exclusive eHarmony promotional codes not
found anywhere else online.

Make sure to check the home
page for any unadvertised eHarmony.com promo codes and discounts
out there. This is how I found out about the eHarmony free communication
weekend that went on this past Memorial day.

PerfectMatch.com is the “eHarmony alternative”. Both sites are
widely regarded as the top two premier online dating sites out there.
PerfectMatch is hot on eHarmony’s heels and has been featured
in several t.v. shows and feature movies (like “Must Love Dogs”).

Here is the latest discount for PerfectMatch.com

Check out the PerfectMatch.com promotional code section for more
exclusive PerfectMatch coupon codes and discounts !

May 23rd - May 26th starts the eHarmony free communication weekend.
Friday through Monday you will be able to view and communication with your
eHarmony matches for free. If you aren’t yet a member of eHarmony,
fill out a
and take a few minutes to accurately and completely
fill out an eHarmony free personality profile. It is important
that you be as honest as possible in your answers. This
is because eHarmony matches you based upon the results
of your personality analysis. The entire process takes about 15
minutes and is well worth it. You will get a chance to view yourself
as how other people view you and this could open your eyes to
things that other people see in you, but are too afraid to say it
to your face.

After the free communication weekend take advantage of the
special eHarmony promotional code below:

This week, I am posting the guy’s point of view. I sent out an email
to over 100 different guys (thanks to my University contacts) and asked
them the same question. Their responses ranged from the mild to the
wild (since this is a “g-rated” website, I will spare you the story of the
dominatrix girl that one guy met).

I have compiled the answers from over 100 guys surveyed and
these next 10 types of women seem to pop up more often than
not in an online dating service:

(Again, these are NOT my answers. If you disagree with any of these,
blame the guys you meet online for giving the responses)

1. Rosie O’donnel
The girl who just won’t shut up. Apparently some girls like to chat too
much. So much, that when the guys are talking to them on the phone,
they cannot get a word in edge-wise. To make matters worse, the girl
talks AT them, not TO them. These types of girls are great for guys who
are just getting into online dating and really don’t know what to say. Just
sit back, grab a beer and every now and then go:

“Hrmm, that’s interesting !” followed by a few accepting grunts here and there.

2. The Serial Dater (a.k.a “Attention Whore”)
This is the girl that comes online with the sole purpose of getting as much
attention as she can from as many guys as she can. She may have recently
broken up with her boyfriend, or may have been dumped so bad that her ego
has taken a boo-boo. Generally speaking, she is very attractive and her
online personals email inbox is probably too full….so full that it takes her a few
days to answer your wink or email. She might have a few scantily clad pictures
up, with ample cleavage showing, or may have such phrases as:

“Am open to meeting all kinds of guys”
or
“I value a guy’s personality over his looks”

Unless you are a guy that has a perfect body and is the long-lost
identical twin of her ex boyfriend who just dumped her….I would have
to say your chances are slim to none with this girl. Her sole purpose is
to make herself feel better, and at the same time, toy with the emotions
of the guys she talks to.

Remember that epic 4 hour instant message convo you had with her
the other night? Sorry to break this to you, but she was talking to 3-4
other guys at the same time she was talking to you. Aha ! Now you realize
why it was taking her so long to reply to your instant messages?

3. Totally hot chick looking for an “average guy who understands me”.
Ok, my “bullshit meter” is going off the hook here. While I am trying to
fix it, here is how this one goes:

A cute (borderline beautiful) “girl” creates a online personality profile.
In it, she states that she is tired of the games guys play, and is looking for
an honest and open and genuine man to be her boyfriend. She might say that
“looks don’t matter” and she only cares about the size of a guys heart.

Stop for a minute before you respond to her personal ad.

Do you honestly believe that a totally “hot chick” has resorted to an
online dating service to find a boyfriend and she really doesn’t care about
what you look like and who you are? Ok….it could happen, I suppose. But
more often than not, it is someone trying to get your personal contact
information so that they can send you emails on how to enlarge your male
genitalia as well as any and all porn website advertisements.

How many “average looking guys” do you think that are on any given
online dating service, as compared to “totally hot guys”? I would say
10 to 1. So these people realize this and use it to their advantage.

4. Females they aren’t attracted to

Out of the 100 guys that I surveyed, a great majority of them said
that the “unattractive females” were a type of girl that they found
online.

5. Wham-Bam-ThankYou-Sir
I really don’t think this one needs any explanation at all.

Face it guys, no matter what you say….if a girl you are dating offers to
have sex with you on the first date….how many of you HONESTLY would
turn them down?

There are several adult online dating sites that carter to men (and women) who
are only out to have sex. True, if you look hard enough (and if that
is all you are out for) sooner or later you will find a women who is willing
to have sex with you within the first one or two dates. Chances are,
unless you specifically stick with the online dating services that cater
to the “hookup” types of people, you will most likely get rejected more
times than you can to imagine.

6. Girl that is looking for children or marriage
These are the types of women who are out for one thing and one thing only:
To get married/have children.
Generally speaking, you can tell that they
are out for this by just talking to them for a few.
She might be extremely picky, then again, a simple “let’s goto Vegas
and get married” will land you the prize fish. Good luck with that !!

7. Average girl
Average looks, average body type, average job, average sense of humor.
In short, an average girl. If you join an online dating service with any
sense of reality in your expectations, then you should look for one of these
girls to try and date. True, she may not be a size two….hell, she may not
even be a size 3-9, but one thing is for sure. If you two hit it off personality-wise
you have got yourself a honest and reliable girlfriend for a long time.

My advice? Go for the “average girl”. She will make you 100x more happier
than the blonde hair, blue eyes, size DDDD nympho that you met last
night online. Trust me on this one. I’m a girl.

8. Psychopath Patty
Hold on to your hats cowboys, you got yourself a live one here !!
Prozac, Xanax, Zoloft, you name it, she’s on it. Usually the relationship
starts off innocently enough….until you hit her “trigger”. Then all hell
breaks loose and you might start to realize that the gates of hell hath
just opened and out comes a personality that is slightly less than what
you expected.

Sidenote: More than a few guys have claimed that these so called
“psycho bitches” are GREAT in bed.

9. Must love (lots of) children
This is the girl that already has a few children and is looking for a guy
to accept her for who she is. She will usually come straight out and tell
you that if you don’t like children, don’t bother emailing her. I can
personally relate, since my sister is a single mother, and it can be hard
to find a good man.

The guys I surveyed however, reported a few girls that were just out
for money and a daddy for the youngins. I would advise you to keep
an open mind when talking to a single mother online, and never discriminate
just because she has children. But, I would also advise (until you feel that
you can trust her) to always keep an open eye for the few gold diggers
that might be out there.

10. The fat chick who thinks she can do better than you

Wow. Apparently this was a big one for the guys…..

A good portion of the guys I surveyed felt that they had been “discriminated”
against by women who they felt that were completely in their league.
Some guys reported that they had lowered their standards by talking to
these women, only to be rejected time and time again.

If I could strap on (no pun intended) my “P.C.” cloak for a minute and
try to save the guys some face by translating what they are trying to say:

Some girls are just too picky and unrealistically try to date
guys that are out of their league.

Fair enough?

There you have it. 10 types of women that over 100 guys have reported
meeting and dating online. Of course, these are just the most common
reported examples and you may or may not come across one of these
girls in your online dating experiences.

Good luck !