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Chicas said:

Hmm, nice overview but I do not think they will risk the fame they are having now with networking.

Phil said:

This is a tough one from many angles. I have a friend who met someone on facebook and travelled from the west coast to the east coast to meet. They turned out 10 years older than their facebook picture and 3 hours late at the airport to greet them. Not too cool and a wasted trip and money.

From a guy’s point of view there might be a bit of trepidation sharing with everyone that he’s using facebook as an online dating service. We’ll see. Thanks for the write up.

Karen said:

I agree with you Phil on your last point. While it has become socially acceptable to use an online dating site in this day and age, I have run into people who view still online dating sites with contempt or even mockery.

“Why would I need to stoop down to an online dating site to find someone to date?”

is the usual response that I get. Turns out more often than not, those people don’t have a Facebook profile, they aren’t into using Twitter and rarely if ever check their emails.

In regards to your first point, I think Facebook should come up with some sort of verification system that goes above and beyond “picture approval” that you see on most online dating sites out there.

I personally am a bit “sketch” on guys I meet on online dating sites who don’t have a Facebook or Myspace profile. I want to see a glimpse into their personal lives….see if I can tell anything about them from what their friends are writing and what they are writing about themselves. Online dating profiles to me seem a bit “canned” at times….everyone seems picture perfect with their best foot forward (and that’s how it should be).

Call me a sadist, but I want to see a glimpse of my potential date at his worst. A good friend of mine who is a strong businessman gave me some really great advice when it comes time to interview someone for a job:

“You already know the good things about the person you are interviewing. It’s all laid out in their resume and they are coming off like a shining star in the interview. It’s what you don’t know about them that could hurt you. You want to see this person at their worst or under duress in order to accurately gauge their performance on the job.”

He makes a good point. When things are going smooth, everyone is all gumdrops and sunshine. It’s when the little road bumps come along that we truly can see what kind of person we are dealing with.

The same in business as the same in online dating. Your online dating profile is your resume. Let’s try and wade through some of the bullshit and see just who we are dealing with here.

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