Here’s a dating tip for you guys for the New Year: Don’t date while you are mentally depressed.

I’m not talking about a clinical depression, but rather depression in the sense when you are down in a funk and all signs point to a nice little Pity Party going on inside your head. Dating other people requires you to give all of yourself to that person. When you are depressed you are only thinking about yourself. As such you are not able to give 100% of your efforts to getting to know the person you are dating.

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If you are always laughing, you don’t have time to think about the fact that this guy does not look like Brad Pitt-or anywhere close. And even if you do think about it, you don’t care.

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I get asked a lot by my guy friends if they should continue to head to the bars to look for women. I shout, “Definitely”. I know, that some may think, it is not the ideal place to pick up on a girl that you want to bring home to mom but it can be. Bars are there, mostly, as a pick up joint.

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Isn’t it funny how a label can mean so much to someone, especially to women. Most men don’t care what you call them as long as you are putting out. But women, we need a title. We like “girlfriend”, “fiancé” and “wife”. We feel better when we have a title. We feel like we belong.

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