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Even if you don’t plan on signing up for eHarmony, take the time to fill out the personality profile (it’s more of a “yes/no” type of quiz) and at the end eHarmony presents to you a very detailed analysis of your personality. You can then use this analysis to see how other people might view you….

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Dating sucks, but there IS light at the end of the tunnel

I used to hate dating. I really, really hated dating. To me it was just like a job interview. You spend hours getting ready, not to mention days before prepping for the event. If you are a girl, you get your hair cut, waxed, nails done and sometimes even shop for a new outfit. If you are a guy, you spend hours on the internet trying to find the perfect place to go, make reservations, get your outfit together and clean your car. Along with 500 other things that pop up in between all of this that you have to do for your date.

Then you go on your date. You sweat and stress and try to look cool under the pressure. You attempt to come up with funny things to say. You endeavor to laugh appropriately at your date’s jokes. You are constantly gauging the situation to see if your date thinks you are the most wonderful person alive. After it is all said and done, at the end of the night you have the awkward walk to the door, do I kiss or don’t I kiss, and is this where I ask for another date thought running through your head.

Ick. It is a wonder any of us go on dates. Why do we do it? Well, we are looking for the “one”. Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to get to your prince who is the “one”. I know it is torturous. Dating is not always fun. But falling in love is. Think of the last time you were in love. How great is that feeling? Pretty great, huh. It is what drives us as human beings. It is what many a war has been fought over. It makes great movies, great and great songs, timeless. And love is what that terrible thing “dating” leads to.

Think about it. What stories would you have to tell your kids and grandkids if you didn’t go on a few good and bad dates? You wouldn’t have any. And it is the journey, not the destination that makes life worth living. You just have to learn to start enjoying the journey. It can be fun. Sure, there will still be stress but there doesn’t have to be a dread about dating. You are going on a bunch of interviews but love is definitely not work. It takes work, yes. But it is not that job that we all hate. It is a wonderful thing. You get to experience magic when you fall in love. You get to experience meaning and pure bliss.

Doesn’t all of this love talk sound grand? That is why we all date. We are looking for the light at the end of the tunnel. The person we are meant to be with that will see us through thick and thin. The person who will be our biggest cheerleader. The person who will be on our team. The person who will fight the good fight with us. We need a better half. We as humans need human interaction. And finding a soul mate is the best interaction of them all.

Dating=Love. There is no two ways about it. We have to go on dates to fall in love. And once you find the one that is meant to be yours, you love dating. You can’t wait to get dressed up and go out to eat. You love prepping and getting ready so that they continue to be attracted to you and so that they shower you with compliments. You are giddy and can’t wait for your good night kiss. And this great feeling is all thanks to dating.

You just have to turn your perspective around about dating. Don’t think of it like a chore and don’t bring your baggage from past bad dates or bad relationships to your date. You are starting anew. A clean slate. You are going out with this attractive person and you will start a journey tonight. I cannot tell you where it will lead but I can tell you to enjoy it. You just never know when you will be sitting across from your future soul mate that will take your life in a wonderful new direction.

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With that being said, do you honestly think you are going to find the love of your life in just a few short weeks? If you were to suddenly decide to want to learn Karate….would you walk into the Karate studio with the expectation of becoming a black belt in only a month? The same goes for a serious relationship. These things take time and throughout the dating process you will undoubtedly learn more about yourself as you experience new things and meet new people.

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There are so many things that make me go hmmm about the opposite sex. Men are definitely a different species. But I’ve compiled a list of my top 10 reasons men make me utterly confused (and insane).

1. Men say they will call. Oh, yes, we have all been there. A man will say he will call me and never does. What? Why bother telling me you will call when you know damn well, you won’t. Just don’t say anything. Or even better tell me you are married, a priest or gay and I’ll never think about you again. Or, at least, I won’t waste my weekend looking to see if you ring me up.

2. Men think jeans, a clean shirt and closed toed shoes are dressing up. Really?? Really?? This is dressing up to you?? Women spend hours getting ready and choosing the perfect outfit and you just throw on a clean shirt (which probably means you have only worn it two times) and some shoes that aren’t sandals. Come on guys. Put a little effort into it. If you do, we’ll reciprocate and put a little effort in the bedroom for you.

3. Men eat a lot and never worry about gaining weight. This astonishes me. The mere fact that you can shove a chili dog, fries and 10 beers down your throat and never moan about it going to your hips is amazing. But it also drives me crazy because we women are always calculating the amount of calories and the exact number of minutes we will have to run on the treadmill to burn it off for every single bite.

4. Men like breasts, a lot. OK, I get this one-sort of. It is definitely built into the DNA code that all men like boobs. But the obsession?? That I don’t get. The constant drooling if a woman has breasts up to her eyeballs. You are men, not animals. Control that a little, ok. It’s fine to lust after our lady humps but please keep it in check.

5. Men like fast cars. This one is really funny to me. Especially since I live in Los Angeles. With the traffic out here, you cannot get above 55 mph, if you are lucky. So why would you buy a car that can go from 0 to 300 mph in 60 seconds. It makes no sense. I guess if you lived in the middle of nowhere and you had lots of open roads then maybe this would be beneficial. But honestly, if you lived out in the middle of nowhere, where are you in a hurry to get to?

6. Men leave laundry, food and anything else piled up for weeks and it never bothers them. Gross. Just gross. Clean up. If you need a maid, hire one. Even better, get off your lazy ass and do it yourself. Put things in their place. Clean the dishes and dust. It really doesn’t take that long. Throw out the trash. Your place will smell better. If you never want to attract another human being then keep living like this but if you are looking for a woman-clean up!!

7. Men want women 10 years (or more) younger than they are. This one just really bugs me. I think some men have a mirror that has a distorted view when they glance at themselves. Kinda like a funhouse mirror but makes them 30 lbs lighter, 10 years younger and sexy enough to catch a hot younger woman’s eye. What’s wrong with women who are your own age? And please, gentlemen, let me tell you, there is only one Hugh Hefner out there and you are not him.

8. Men can watch sports for days, weeks and years and never get bored. A good sports game is fine. I’m all for it. But 12 hours spent locked in the house with buffalo wings and pizza does not make a good Sunday for most women. Do us all a favor. Pick a game, pick a couple, then put the remote down and take us out for a fun day. If you do, you’ll be very happy with our brand of tackle later.

9. Men very rarely talk about their feelings. Ah, that scary word, FEELINGS. It sends men into a state of shock. Your feelings are actually pretty easy. If I stuck your hand under hot water, your hand would feel HOT. If I stuck your hand under cold water, your hand would feel COLD. So if a woman asks you how you feel about her, just state the obvious. Do you like her?? Do you see this going further?? Are you happy with the relationship?? Pretty easy questions and answers. And if the answers are complicated, just tell us why. No need for us to stick your head in the oven to get an answer, right?

10. Men think they are smarter than every woman alive. I could have gone to Yale, have 3 doctorate degrees and be a neurosurgeon and the average Joe will still think that he is smarter than I am. I think it is spelled out somewhere deep in their genetic code that they have to believe that they know more than women. They know everything. And if they don’t, they think that by watching a TV show or asking their neighbor, Bill, how something works automatically makes them an expert on it. Wrong! Yes, there are plenty of smart men out there but please, do every woman a favor by not assuming that you know it all and we don’t. We’ll just let you think you do, if you give us proper credit when we deserve it.